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Post 26 – No news is good news

Well it’s been a while since I last posted and as usual that’s a good thing….no news generally is good news when it comes to me and this is no exception. Instead, the hustle and bustle of the summer holidays has kept me well and truly busy and away from my blog even if it didn’t keep me away from Facebook!

The summer began with an amazingly lovely few days camping with 3 other mums from school and 12 children! Sounds appalling…..but was actually so lovely! We had amazing weather with blue skies every day, the company was chilled out, fun and a good laugh, and the kids were brilliantly behaved. I have put off camping for so many years so this was a ‘taster’ session..the first time I’ve been since I was at guide camps! And given the success it was, I think we now need to invest in a nice tent….so if anyone has a nice big one they want to sell that is easy to put up, let me know! I’m a converted camper (well, so long as the sun is shining and the drinks are flowing!)

The next couple of weeks absolutely flew by and before we knew it, we were hopping onto the Eurotunnel to France for our family holiday down by the Swiss border. Again, we decided on a first. We went to a Eurocamp equivalent and despite the weather being remarkably average, had a really lovely 12 days. The children made some lovely friends and we did some great things. Walking, pedalos, waterfalls, swimming and archery just to name a few things. Sam turned 8 while we were there and we even got to do the Go Ape equivalent (if you want to see a woman nearly in need of a nappy….). Funnily we were there with one of my old school friends, purely by chance. Same week, same resort and same accommodation type! You couldn’t have planned it if you’d tried!

So then back home in time for school the following day and now we are back into everyday life!

We actually tried to go to the Oxford Myeloma Infoday on Saturday. I haven’t been for 2 years, and Nick hasn’t been to one for probably 4 years now! He decided that he wanted a bit of an update on where treatments are heading. Whilst we hope it won’t be relevant to us for some time, you never know and things seem so positive at the moment, we wanted to hear about it from the experts. Unfortunately for us it didn’t work out quite how we had hoped. To start with, one of my old consultants was talking…..one for whom I have no time whatsoever. The one question I asked, he didn’t answer….but that was par for the course and why I moved to the Marsden in the first place. It made me realise that we were 100% right to move there from Wycombe!

We’d just got past his session and had the break when I got a call from our friends to say that Sam was in A&E after a small accident where he’d cut his head open! So off we went, missing our lunch and more importantly the sessions we’d really wanted to attend in the afternoon….but as any parent knows, we couldn’t have not been with Sam…he definitely needed TLC and a bit of chocolate! It’s a shame as I would well and truly recommend these days to patients, families and friends who have a vested interest in finding out more about the treatment and future of myeloma but I’m sure we’ll get to one another year.

So, what else? Well not that much really. I’ve spotted a potential job to consider in High Wycombe….a bit scary to go back into the fundraising arena after my last experience, but I really want to get back to work. I go spare at home, and need to keep my mind working, and the money coming in! And whilst I can keep busy till these challenges are finished, I will definitely need something to do by January if not before then! I’m not sure that I’m qualified enough but you never know and it’s worth a try.

In the meantime, it’s a case of continuing with my challenges. I’ve completed 21 now so am over half way. I should take this opportunity to say thank you to the 30+ folk who did the Ice Bucket Challenge in aid of Myeloma UK. There were some great videos out there and I was really touched by all the people who felt that they wanted to do it for my 40 Challenges.

But there are still 19 challenges left to do so if anyone can help then please let me know! I’m still looking for raffle prizes, businesses to donate £40, people to take on Myeloma UK challenges, and signatures and retweets from celebrities just to name a few! You can see where I am with all of the challenges at http://www.debsjourneywithmyeloma.wordpress.com/40challengesb440. Please let me know if you want to take part in any of them (remembering it doesn’t stop me from having to do them!)

And if you can’t help with the challenges, you can donate (see below) or buy my raffle tickets!

1st Prize: 2 tickets to Charlie and the Chocolate Factory plus either £50 cash/ restaurant voucher or hotel stay (at my discretion!)

Other prizes include:
*VIP trip to Anthropologie Europe Flagship store in London for a Sunday Champagne reception, discounted shopping trip
*Beautiful Twinnings Gift Box including mugs, iced tea flask, + numerous teas
*Set of Roald Dahl books
*Limited edition Quentin Blake print
* £100 Hand & Flowers Voucher + Signed Tom Kerridge Book
* Traditional Afternoon tea at Compleat Angler, Marlow
* £100 voucher for Apollo Photography – Marlow Ltd
*Total Footcare voucher
*Mary Kay handcream
*Signed Denise Lewis book
*Wycombe HEights 4 ball
* WWT London Wetland Centre family tickets
* Great Lavazza goody bag with loads of coffee, a coffee pot and spoons
* Goody baskets

Tickets are £1 each and you can buy individually or in books of 5. I’m happy to provide on a sale or return basis if you want to sell to your friends and family too! The draw will take place on Wednesday 6th December. Prizes to be picked up from West Wycombe. 

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If you would like to sponsor me with my #40ChallengesB440, please either

go to http://www.justgiving.com/Deb-Gascoyne

or

text ‘DEBG99 £X’ to 70070

e.g ‘DEBG99 £40′ if you want to donate £40

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Post 19 – Myeloma Awareness Week

This week is the perfect opportunity for me to write a new post. It is Myeloma Awareness Week. And I have myeloma…just in case people didn’t know!
But I think I have written quite a lot recently about what myeloma actually is. So I thought I’d use this post to write a little about what Myeloma UK do and why I am so passionate about fundraising for them. They are not like many other charities I am aware of…they 100% put patients needs at the forefront of their work. I know that if I go to them with a suggestion or idea, they listen. They have even on a number of occasions implemented things I have talked to them about. I love that about them…they aren’t too proud to learn from their ‘patients/families’. I wish all charities were more like that.

So, what do Myeloma UK do. Gosh, where to start really. Perhaps with what has impacted me on a day to day basis. Support.

1. SUPPORT TO PATIENTS AND FAMILIES

Myeloma UK help patients and families in so many ways;

  • Info days: They hold a number of info days that allow patients to meet other patients and learn about myeloma. That may sound simple. But there aren’t hundreds of people with myeloma in a town….and you can feel really alone when you have this cancer. So meeting other people is key. And they get the best professionals at these events sharing their knowledge. I have been to two, and plan to go to the new Oxford one this year. Even down the line, they help with making sure that patients and families know about what is on the horizon….without trying to offer false hope.
  • Infoline – This is crucial to many patients who don’t know how else to get the answers. There are so many people who don’t want to read the internet (and they might be right! It is often scary and gives out of date and worse case information!). The infoline has amazing staff (special mention to Ellen!) who really know how to help patients with medical and emotional information. They also have the ability to put people in touch with other patients and carers who are part of the PEER NETWORK. I help with this and I hope I am able to help people who are newly diagnosed, scared and who just need some reassurances.
  • Myeloma Support Groups – Whilst these groups aren’t specifically run or organised by Myeloma UK, they are supported by them and again, are crucial to some patients and families. I’ve never gone to one of these as there isn’t one really close to me…and I’ve found my support via the Discussion forum and in later years, via Facebook friends. But I know many people who have found these really useful.
  • Discussion Forum – This is a fantastic forum that is provided by, and moderated by, Myeloma UK. It allows patients to go online and find other people who are going through the same cancer, similar side effects and symptoms, and the same emotional questions that they are worrying about. When I was first diagnosed in 2009, this was what kept me going. I found so many friends through this site and whilst I don’t get onto it a lot nowadays (a good sign, because it shows that things are going well for me and I’m busy!), I know that it will come back into its own when one day I relapse (as I am sure will happen 😦 )

2. RESEARCH

The next MAJOR thing that Myeloma UK are instrumental in achieving, is a massive impact in the research field. They are the only UK charity focused on the discovery, development and access to new effective treatments for myeloma and they invest approximately £1.5m a year on world-leading research! That puts my fundraising into perspective really, but also makes me determined to keep going with it. Without patients and families like ours raising money, this investment wouldn’t be possible. And this investment is helping to;

  • find new drugs, preferably with lesser side effects
  • find out what causes myeloma
  • understand why patients react differently to different drugs
  • potentially help to in the future, find a cure for myeloma

They do all of this by setting up clinical trials with the newest drugs, their Genetics discovery programme, and research with patients ensuring that the right areas of myeloma are researched as time goes on.

3. SUPPORT AND RESOURCES FOR HEALTH PROFESSIONALS

4. POLICY AND PUBLIC AFFAIRS

Now I’m no expert on what this actually means apart from that I know that they work really hard to build relationships with the people that they need to, to ensure that they achieve their aims and objectives. Nick works in the pharma industry, and has been massively impressed with what the charity, and especially their Chief Executive, Eric (Low) has achieved with organisations like NICE – drug progression in timescales that are highly unusual. They work tirelessly to build relationships and to learn from those around them. And their achievements have been massive. So much so, that Eric even got awarded an OBE in 2012! Without any knowledge that it had been applied for….he is far too modest to have wanted it himself.

 

I am sure that I have missed lots that they do…..they are truly amazing and I am honoured to have the opportunity to know the Myeloma UK team. I hope I have many years to do fundraising for them that can help them with the work that they do- they are truly impressive. I would also like to give a special shout out to their Chairman, Judy Dewinter. Judy, works tirelessly for the best interests of the charity, but has also been a massive support to me as an individual. She does it all quietly in the background too. I was lucky enough to make friends with Judy in the early stages of my myeloma….and know how much she throws her heart and soul into all that she does for Myeloma UK. She made a huge difference to me. All in all, they are a massively impressive team….and I am proud to be associated with them (even if I would rather not have myeloma!)

If you’ve stuck with this post to the end, thank you…..I know it was a long, serious one!

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If you would like to sponsor me with my #40ChallengesB440, please either

go to http://www.justgiving.com/Deb-Gascoyne

or

text ‘DEBG99 £X’ to 70070

e.g ‘DEBG99 £40′ if you want to donate £40

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